Telltale Signs She Just Wants a Free Meal
This is advice for guys that want to get laid on the first date and don’t want to be strung along for 3 or 4 dates only to get ghosted after all that time and effort. There are some tell tale signs that a girl is going to waste your time. It doesn’t matter if you bring your A game to the date, she has already decided that she is definitely not going to sleep with you on the first date if at all. These are usually the kind of women that have low interest in you, maybe just enough interest to meet you and you just happen to be able to fit into her schedule and she also wants a free meal. Ironically, as women start to lose their beauty in their late 20s they start to play hard to get when really their SMV is decreasing by the day, but they are demanding a higher price. There are far hotter, younger and less jaded women that aren’t going to be playing hard to get.
I have noticed that the women that usually try to get a free meal usually come from online dating apps. When I do cold approaches and get a girl willing to meet me, there is a much higher rate of success, this is because we have far more going for us in real life, the girls see you in person, your confidence, your style your physicality, your charisma etc, rather than a few photos and a short blurb on an app, mixed in with a million other dudes. Real life cold approaches just have a bigger impact.
So the first tell tale sign that she isn’t very interested in you is when she doesn’t play ball. You suggest meeting at a certain place that you know can lead to sex i.e. a place that is near your house. So girls with low interest won’t agree to go to that location because she already knows what you want and she doesn’t want to give it. She will often suggest somewhere else or just say its too far from her home. This means that she is not really interested in having sex with you on the first date or at all. So this is obviously a big red flag if you’re banking on getting laid.
I’m sure every guy reading this can afford to pay for any date, this is not about saving money, it’s about saving time and knowing the signs of a chick with low interest in you. So to counteract these kinds of women that are out there to use you to feed them, get a little free attention and ultimately waste your time. I would always say that the first date is either coffee or a drink but definitely not a meal. Trust me, just because you wine and dine a women that has already decided that you don’t qualify for a first date lay won’t change her mind even if it’s a 4 star restaurant.
I can tell you now as a fact when a girl has high interest in you she doesn’t care about you paying or not paying for a meal, coffee or a drink. She is just excited to meet you and will adjust her schedule to come to wherever you suggest. So when a girl only meets you on the condition of going for lunch or dinner, you can take it that her interest in you as a sexual partner is very low. You can save yourself time and effort by sticking to your guns and if you do decide to go half way make sure that she is not just getting a free meal, because like I said these kinds of women will only fuck you on the 3rd or 4th date, BEST CASE SCENARIO.
I also want to get it out there that there are exceptions to every case, but I’m just speaking as a general rule. Some girls may come back and let you hit it on the second date if you go out of your way and bring your A game. However the fact that she wasn’t willing to follow your instructions shows that she wasn’t that interested in the first place unless she had some legitimate excuse not to follow your lead. Always remember that chicks with high interest will make life easier for you i.e. suggesting another date and time if she is busy on the date/time you suggest. Girls with lower interest will just say that she is busy and won’t suggest another time.
Remember that you should ALWAYS be sourcing new leads if you want regular new lays. If you hit up a girl too soon after she said she was busy you will KILL her attraction to you by seeming desperate. You need to have other leads and put women that made excuses for your invite on ice. Hit them up a week to 10 days later with another invite. If she makes another excuse without suggesting another time. This women should be relegated to seriously low interest and maybe invite her again a month later, but in these cases they have to play by my rules because I know at this point that they have low interest and to avoid wasting time I will only meet them if they agree to come to my area.
Get out there and get laid.
Mac